A situation came up this weekend, that made me think of this question. While often we give up large parts of ourselves when we are in a relationship, I have to wonder how much is enough, too much, or not enough. Should we allow ourselves to be pushed in different directions and if so, how much. I have often felt at a loss to much is the right amount. First let me relate a story to you, about this weekend. I do come cycling, and I was around a couple that also do some cycling. Well, one of the … [Read more...]