Stephanie Manley » naricissism http://stephaniemanley.com Commentary about life, relationships, food, and more Sun, 21 Aug 2011 00:52:24 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 Life After a Narcisist http://stephaniemanley.com/2007/05/life-after-a-narcisist/ http://stephaniemanley.com/2007/05/life-after-a-narcisist/#comments Tue, 08 May 2007 11:02:00 +0000 Stephanie Manley http://stephaniemanley.com/?p=69 Believe it or not, there is life after a narcisist. It may seem like this the relationship with that person will never end, it will. Unfortunately it will happen when they finally realize they will get no more from you. You must take steps to see this happens. You must ignore them, and fail to give them attention no matter what they say, think, do, or claim that they feel. They key in this relationship ending is for you to simply stop supplying them with anything they see that you offer.

Once they finally realize that you are no longer a source of what they want from you, they will move on. It may take awhile, but it will happen. Remember to stay strong and for you to continue to ignore them, and deny them anything they desire from you. If you bend, even a little in this, they will continue to circle back, and get whatever they can from you. Keep in mind these are not rational people that you are dealing with. They are sub-human.

Life without a narcisist in it will be easier. You will be amazed at how you can live your life without so much drama. It will be like night and day once you knock this person out of your life. While it isn’t an easy task to do, your life will dramatically improve, and you will be happier after you heal some of the damage that they do. Stay strong, deny them what they desire from you, and eventually they will go away, and your life will return to normal.


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