Karen, your posting was a long one, and I wanted to give it full attention. Here is Karen's posting then I will follow with my comments. Karen said... Hi Everyone, Thank you so much for this site, and your information. I am truly heartbroken, and I don't know what to do. I believe the man that I love and have pined over for so long is a narcisist. I will provide you with my story/issue, and I welcome your feedback, advice, etc. Back in 2004 I was going through a separation with my … [Read more...]
Time heals all
April 23, 2008 By 1 Comment
You know I didn't realize it had been almost a year since the last posting. I have gotten a lot of compliments and comments on the topic of life with a narcissistic person. It has been almost three years since my relationship with this type of person, and I promise to each and everyone of you life goes on. I also understand the pain that many of you express in your comments and emails. I can honestly say that my relationship with my narcissist was one in which I had many high points, and … [Read more...]
How start breaking free from a narcissist
March 28, 2006 By 37 Comments
How start breaking free from a narcissist Are you with a narcissist? Does your life feel complicated beyond belief? Is all of your anxiety typically centered around one person? Do you find that person gives you standards that you can’t keep up with, because their standards change all of the time? You may be with a narcissist. Life is a narcissist is a living hell. One thing is critical though, you must divorce yourself from getting self validation from this person. Secretly this person … [Read more...]
How to reject a Narcisstist
January 26, 2006 By 2 Comments
How to reject a narcissist There are many good ways to reject a narcissist. You may want to use this as a weapon in dealing with one as they continually wage relationship warfare. Narcissist thrive off of relationships that hey can manipulate through rejecting their partner. They reject their partner in a variety of ways. Typically the narcissist uses verbal abuse techniques such as ignoring, passive aggressive tactics, and inciting their partner, so that their partner looses that comfortable … [Read more...]
The Soul of the Narcissist
November 4, 2005 By 1 Comment
May you never have a relationship with one of these people. This is an excellent, and long article regarding a relationship with a Narcissist. Stephanie The Soul of the Narcissist By Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" CHAPTER FIVE: THE NARCISSIST AND THE OPPOSITE SEX This chapter deals with the male narcissist and with his "relationships" with women. It would be correct to substitute one gender for another. Female narcissists treat the … [Read more...]