February 8, 2012

Cleaning out the Clutter

Cleaning out Clutter

Cleaning out the clutter is a theme that I have been hit with several times here lately.  I have gotten email messages about cleaning out the clutter, and how much your life will improve, as well as a book or two coming across my hands regarding the same message.  To me, when things like this happen it is a sign from up above, that I should get busy now, while the gentle messages are being whispered in my ear, rather than having something like a tornado do it for me.  So much of this … [Read more...]

2008 a year of grief

2008 is a year I will never forget. It is the year that will define the rest of my life; it is the year where I had the best and the worst of times all within a short period of time. I am a changed person by through this year, currently I can’t say if it is for the best or not, but I have been changed none the less. Before I start with 2008, I should start with the events that started the whole year. In November, Michael had taken a position with Whirlpool in Benton Harbor, MI. We talked … [Read more...]

What’s New

It has been awhile since I had posted again. What had happened in my life was I had become engaged to a wonderful man, we had moved across the country, and had a fantastic three months before he tragically was killed in a motorcycle accident due to no fault of his own. So I was dealing with the move, a new job, and a dramatic change in my life. I am now getting back to posting again and hope to have additional postings about relationships once again. I have enjoyed reading many of the … [Read more...]

Time heals all

You know I didn't realize it had been almost a year since the last posting. I have gotten a lot of compliments and comments on the topic of life with a narcissistic person. It has been almost three years since my relationship with this type of person, and I promise to each and everyone of you life goes on. I also understand the pain that many of you express in your comments and emails. I can honestly say that my relationship with my narcissist was one in which I had many high points, and … [Read more...]

When Friendships End

So often I have asked myself what are the rules when a friendship ends. How long do you try to keep the relationship going? How long do you make attempts to get together? When do you just throw in the towel and move on? Most importantly, how do you emotionally deal with someone that was important to you moving on out of your life. I have read books on this, and scanned the Internet looking for solid advice to this problem. You know, I haven't found solid and consistent advice. There are many … [Read more...]