Stephen Covey in 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families says that responsibility is really the “ ability to choose our response.” We don’t have to respond to stimuli and triggers the same way we have always done. We do have a choice. It may take some practice and a real commitment on our part to let go of old patterns and try something new, but it is worth it in peace of mind, deeper relationships and conversations that don’t end in arguments. The kind of communication we seek depends on … [Read more...]
Dress for Dating Success: Clothes to Attract the Man of Your Dreams
August 5, 2005 By Leave a Comment
In order to attract the man of your dreams, it helps to dress in a way that honors your beautiful body. When I use the word "honor," I don't mean you should dress like a nun or hide yourself in an ankle-length skirt and a turtleneck. But you should wear only clothes that make the best of your unique shape. Too many fleshy women (and there are lots of men who prefer robust females over skimpier lasses) are currently wandering the planet in low-rise jeans and tank tops, which results in a … [Read more...]
Nip Verbal Abuse in the Bud
August 3, 2005 By Leave a Comment
Nip Verbal Abuse in the Bud By Stephanie Manley So often in a new relationship we learn the dynamic of the new relationship. This includes how you react together as a couple, with each other, and in group settlings. Backgrounds are very different and as our techniques in dealing and interacting with other people. One thing you need to be on the look out for is verbal abuse. Verbal abuse always takes place before physical abuse does. Knowing what the signs of verbal abuse are as well as being … [Read more...]
Why it’s important to stay in contact with your friends when you’re in a relationship.
August 1, 2005 By Leave a Comment
Why it’s important to stay in contact with your friends when you’re in a relationship. By Stephanie Manley So often when we begin to enter into a new relationship, it is very easy to get swept up by the romance, and leave behind our friends. With the wonderful bliss that you feel when you enter into a relationship it’s easy to understand why we forget our friends and our everyday relationships. Is this the best way to handle a new relationship? Most likely not, sometimes in the tidal … [Read more...]
Why date someone that you wouldn’t have as your friend?
July 21, 2005 By Leave a Comment
Why date someone you wouldn’t have as a friend? By Stephanie Manley Sometimes in dating we so often settle for people that we would not normally have as friends? Why is that? Does the desire to be in a relationship outweigh our standards in love that we will take on a relationship with someone that isn’t good for us? I think that we often let loneliness overshadow our standards that we set. We need to stick to our desires and not engage ourselves into relationships that we wouldn’t … [Read more...]