February 8, 2012

My experience with E-Harmony

Love Me

Dating sites can  be a great way to meet someone special.  If you are a working adult with activities, friends, and a social life, you think it would be easy to meet members of the opposite sex. My married friends seem to think that this is easier than falling off a log.  I assure them, dating is difficult.  Personally my first requirement is the employed look, that may sound cynical and cruel, but if you are roughly equivalent to my age, you should have a job.  Period.  I am smart enough … [Read more...]

When to stop a new relationship

New relationships are always exciting. They are full of new possibilities, they aren't the old relationships, and they are full of untapped potential. All relationship starts aren't smooth. So when do you decide to throw in the towel? I currently have a friend who is starting to date, and I find myself giving her the same advice that she was giving me when I was dating, and I began to think, when do you throw in the towel on someone new? I think you need to be very objective when you start in … [Read more...]

When a relationship is out of synch

Bad Relationship

When a relationship is out of synch A real key in a relationship to both be on the same footing, and to have the same goals for the relationship. The longer it is for when the relationships are when they are out of synch, the more likely it is for the relationship to become toxic and unsustainable, but what do you do when this happens? You have choices to make, and these can be difficult choices to make in this relationship. You can choose to remain in status quo, and most likely suffer from … [Read more...]

Are they that interested?

Have you ever dated someone, and even though you continued to go out there never really seemed to be anything really “right” or anything really “wrong” with that dating relationship? Some people will tell you everything, and others tell very little with their words. What are the signs someone isn’t that interested in you? Does this person stay engaged in conversation with you? Or are your conversations one sided and non interactive? If someone is really interested in you, they are … [Read more...]

Be Ms. Right Before Looking for Mr. Right

Be Ms. Right Before Looking for Mr. Right Bcy Brooke Brimm There is a bunch of talk among women about finding Mr. Right, and there seems to be a common consensus that finding him is a near impossible task. A Woman who is perceived to have found him is envied and bombarded with questions as to how she landed him. The problem with this Mr. Right theory is that it implies that women are automatically Ms. Rights. Unfortunately, this is not true. We are not all wonderful, innocent, drama-free … [Read more...]