Want to know more about a person? Look at their friends. By Stephanie Manley Do you want to know more about the person you are dating? See who their friends are. Knowing who a person hangs around tells you so much about them. What at their values? Do they have long term stable relationships? Are all of their friends short term newly minted friendships? Does your potential mate keep you away from their friends? Answers to these questions can be green lights, or huge red flags. Let's take a … [Read more...]
Respect
October 5, 2005 By Leave a Comment
We are all looking for the right person, the right person is someone who will respect you. What are signs of respect? Respect is someone paying attention to your desires in physical boundaries. Respect is someone not trying to hone in on your personal life, and take it over. Respect is someone treating you with empathy that you deserve. If you are not receiving these things, you need to cut that person out of your life and find someone who will respect you. Physical boundaries can be … [Read more...]
Ten Tips On How To Get That Guy
September 26, 2005 By 2 Comments
More often than not you find my original postings, when I find others of merit I will post them as well. Here was a recent unique find. Ten Tips On How To Get That Guy By Roy Barker 1. Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean that you have to be weak, give in to whatever he wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am not suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but strong women who … [Read more...]
How realistic are we?
August 15, 2005 By Leave a Comment
How realistic are we? By Stephanie Manley So often when we think of our ideal mate we give them qualities and attributes that one person may or may not be able to possess. These qualities can be how they look, how they treat us, to something like what kind of job that they have. Are these ideas realistic? Sometimes yes, and sometimes we are way off the mark. A good exercise may be to write down these ideals and see how realistic we are. By writing down the characteristics we desire in a … [Read more...]
Dress for Dating Success: Clothes to Attract the Man of Your Dreams
August 5, 2005 By Leave a Comment
In order to attract the man of your dreams, it helps to dress in a way that honors your beautiful body. When I use the word "honor," I don't mean you should dress like a nun or hide yourself in an ankle-length skirt and a turtleneck. But you should wear only clothes that make the best of your unique shape. Too many fleshy women (and there are lots of men who prefer robust females over skimpier lasses) are currently wandering the planet in low-rise jeans and tank tops, which results in a … [Read more...]