February 8, 2012

A bit of a break here

Greetings to all, I have had a bit of a break here. I have had a couple things going on in my life lately. Unfortunately my Grandfather passed away, I miss him dearly. I also had returned from a live long dream vacation. Isn't it ironic what life hands you at the same time. I look forward to getting back to writing! Stephanie … [Read more...]

Warning Signs You’re Dating a Loser

"The Loser" Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist Introduction Very few relationships start on terms other than sweetness and politeness. In the beginning, "the honeymoon" of the relationship, it's difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating. Both you and the date are guarded, trying to obtain information about the other as much as possible without seeming like a police detective. Romantic relationships can be wonderful with the … [Read more...]

Scent matters

Check out this article about romance and the nose at psychology today! http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-3512.html … [Read more...]

When dating someone how much should you sacrifice of yourself?

A situation came up this weekend, that made me think of this question. While often we give up large parts of ourselves when we are in a relationship, I have to wonder how much is enough, too much, or not enough. Should we allow ourselves to be pushed in different directions and if so, how much. I have often felt at a loss to much is the right amount. First let me relate a story to you, about this weekend. I do come cycling, and I was around a couple that also do some cycling. Well, one of the … [Read more...]

How to reject a Narcisstist

How to reject a narcissist There are many good ways to reject a narcissist. You may want to use this as a weapon in dealing with one as they continually wage relationship warfare. Narcissist thrive off of relationships that hey can manipulate through rejecting their partner. They reject their partner in a variety of ways. Typically the narcissist uses verbal abuse techniques such as ignoring, passive aggressive tactics, and inciting their partner, so that their partner looses that comfortable … [Read more...]