How to get past a past love
In an article by the folks at pyschology today, they state that you have to pine for your lost love, and mourn the relationship, in order to get over the relationship. Failure to do this only means that you will continue to romantisize the relationship and keep it alive. So grab a tub (or two) of ice cream, cry your eyes out, and move on. The article states that once you get past the relationship, it will simply become a neutral topic to you.
http://cms.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-19920101-000002.html
Stephanie